The Great Divorce – C. S. Lewis
Decisions like this are made at all major cross-roads of our lives, some are pondered and deliberated about over while others are snap-shot choices, often made subconsciously over which we have very little control. At the time, there is no way of telling it what is chosen is the right course of action and far too often they result in what-if moments of reflection later.
Buddha taught that … You have to take on challenges instead of letting challenges taking you, however I try to live by the principle that if something is meant to happen then it will, regardless of the choices made but it is still the what-ifs and if-only decisions that are be the things that causes the most torment.